Set up a friendly lunch or dinner to talk with your estranged spouse. Clarify the meeting will be in a neutral atmosphere. He or she may be hesitant but using the right tone of voice will more than likely obtain a yes to get together.
Watch your body language and choose your words wisely; don't seem overanxious during the meet in. Lean in and listen to their views and ideas; maintain eye contact. Remember to stay open-minded.
Write down a list of what you like about each other and what the problem are. Exchange the lists and agree to meet again. Explain the reason for the second meet is to find out what can be changed to improve the relationship and if there is a common goal to save marriage.
Consult your lawyer or the court to find out how to stop divorce if you both have come to an agreement the marriage can be saved. The laws are different in each state. File the necessary paperwork to stop the proceedings.
Bringing the trust, love and spark back into your marriage is not going to happen overnight. With patience and a good plan, you'll both be on the right track.
Take a vacation just two of you, away from friends, family and stress. Initiate a plan to bring back the romance and sex.
Sometimes a couple wants to make amends but there are deeper issues bottled up, preventing an open conversation. There are many ebook and audio out there to help to get back together with you love one.
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